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Have you ever noticed how the best laid plans always seem to go wrong?
This morning I couldn’t sleep so I got up really early (3.30 a.m.) with the intention of achieving a lot on my site. I even wrote a To Do list, but the day has almost passed and not muchhas been crossed off.
I have commented on several fellow students blogs, but it’s a long process and despite not going back to bed, I still have several more to get through. I know I WILL get there – eventually!
Having started this current course a couple of weeks behind everyone else, I am already behind and need to get moving on my site, but I also need to get on with my other life.
Instead of working on my business, today I’ve been really busy doing housework in preparation for the arrival of my in-laws tomorrow, and my son the day after, when he returns from college.
It should be an interesting Christmas. My son has autism and my mother-in-law, Alzheimer’s. We’re not sure how long she will be able to recognise us. Already she has the memory of a goldfish so want to give her the best Christmas possible.
I know doing the housework now won’t make me money, but it will allow me to spend time with two very special people in my life later. Surprisingly enough, although I’m probably way behind everyone else in the course , I don’t feel at all stressed.
You seelast week a good friend of mine learned she only had months to live, and yesterday, my aunt died of a dibilitating illness, which had caused her agony for years. It was a mixed blessing, butthe two events put everything intoperspective, don’t they?
Here’s a poem which expresses the same sentiments:-
To paint a picture, or write a letter,
Bake a cake, or plant a seed,
Ponder the difference between want and need?
Dust if you must, but there’s not much time
With rivers to swim and mountains to climb,
Music to hear and books to read,
Friends to cherish and a life to lead.
Dust if you must, but the world’s out there,
With the sun in your eyes and the wind in your hair,
A flutter of snow, a shower of rain
This day will not come around again
Dust if you must, but bear in mind
Old age will come and it won’t be kind
And when you go, and go you must,
You, yourself, will make more dust!
Work hard but always make time for what’s important in your life.
Jean Shaw
www.jeansmenopausalmoment.com/blog
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackHi Jean
I really love your poem, it’s so wonderful composed and bautifully descriptive and it certainly gave me some quite deep thoughts about what I really want to achieve in my life plus it really has made my day a lot happier too.
Anyway, keep up the great work with your blog and all the best
Nigel
Hi Jean,
Just a few words to introduce myself I am Brian Welsh. I too started the course late and have struggled a bit to catch up.
I wrote a few words in my Blog the other day about not trying to keep up with everybody but being led by Alex. It can be frustrating looking at what others are achieving and thinking that you will never catch up. I have decided to be led by Alex not by others. I admire what they are doing but I am not ready to start making my own eBook yet. It would simply have no value.
I like your blog and your comments and I am sure you will achieve what it is you want to get out of the course. After all it is not a race!
I will add you to my roll!
Kind regards
Bri
Hi Jean,
Thanks for popping over and introducing yourself earlier today.
I must admit you have got yourself ‘one heck of a niche here’ so I wish you all the best as you move forward with it.
You may not realise it yourself yet, but this niche could lead to great financial success, there are so many spin offs this could take you to. You could also teach so many others about coping with Autism and Alzheimer’s from your own family experiences.
Record your thoughts and observations whenever you can and you will be amazed at what advice you could give to others from them.
I wish you good luck with all you do here, and I’m sure you will have the strength to deal with all the problems that life can throw up at you.
I wonder how I will cope with the ‘Male Menopause’ when it gets here…or maybe it already has!!!
Best wishes to you and your family for Christmas and the coming year.
Cheers
Ted Newman
http://www.tednewman.name
Thanks for visiting my blog Jean –
glad you liked it..
i have been in web dev for a while so it was set up over a year ago -
I know exactly what u mean about the no sleep thing – anyway i have alist of tasks here which i WILL do tonite
you are added to my new resource blog (i started again for this project) at:
http://sosinternetbusinesshelp.com
many thanks
Jerry
Hello Jean,
Robert here. Thanks for visiting my blog,
is still a work in progress. I like your
blog layout very clean and easy read. I
hope everything goes well when all the
relatives visit. I also added you to my blogroll.
Robert
Hi Jean
Thanks for your visit to Gary-Land the other day. I am so far behind in reciprocating.
There are so many new students making their debuts. It’s tough at the start but as you move around the blogs and get yourself known your own blog will grow in leaps and bounds. Trust me. So, come over and say hi again. OK?
Anyway Jean, I just thought I’d stick my head in and let you know that we’re having a pow-wow over at Gary-Land. Come and introduce yourself and get some back linkage. LOL! We’d like to know what you and everyone thought about the Profit Pulling Project Newsletter #1.
Could everyone please make comments here:
http://motivationselfesteem.com/talk/?p=258
Let’s give Parkesy some feedback of what you did or didn’t like.
Gary Simpson
http://motivationselfesteem.com/talk
Hi Jane
Thanks for dropping by my blog and thanks for the link.
I have now added your link
Looking forward to tonight with Alex
Jim Gallagher
Hi Jean
Thanks for popping over to my blog and leaving a message.
Although I started the course at the beginning it has taken me a while to get up and going as I am a complete newbie to this.
However I am so glad that I have the support of such a wonderful community of fellow students. I have always believed that you learn as much from your fellow students as you do from the teacher / mentor (and I finished my teacher training this summer so I know!)
I’m gradually getting around all the blogs and leaving comments, adding to my blogroll as I go, so I will certainly add you on to mine.
I really go with your sentiments in this post. I have a 13 yr old son & an 11 yr old daughter and one of the reasons I am doing this is so that I can be at home more with them. After 2 attempts at working until 5pm I realise that this is not what I want – for my children to have to let themselves into a dark house after school on a winter’s evening. They are too precious to me.
I’ve been trying to make sure that I make the Christmas preparations – the tree’s done and some of the cards are sent (still more to do) and I started my cake today – better late than never!
Talking about getting our priorities right have you ever looked at http://www.flylady.net? She has some great ideas for getting our lives decluttered and our focus in the right place. I’m not up there and sorted – I’m very much still a work in progress.
I believe our time will come when we will be at the forefront in other areas in this journey. At the moment I’m just happy to be on it.
Hilary
http://www.hilarydickinson.com
Hi Jean,
Fellow Alex Jeffreys student here!
Did you create your site since you started Alex’s course?
I am doing a promotional video, and wanted to know if I could use a screenshot of your site?
Could you drop me an email to let me know? (joe@joetrueman.com)
Cheers
Joe
@ http://www.JoeTrueman.com
Hi Jean. Thanks for visiting my site. I have added you to my blogroll. BTW which site do you prefer that I list?
Anyway, please come back to my blog and read my post on driving traffic to the site. I reveal a little known WordPress feature and how to enhance it.
Regards,
Jose
http://www.josecastelonline.com
Hi Jean, thanks for dropping by and for your kind words.
Your post above, specially the part about events that put things in perspective, hit the spot.
You see, after working REAL hard for a company for almost 15 years, one morning my boss called me to his office and said: “Sorry, your position has been eliminated.”
So I picked up my stuff and went home.
I spent the rest of the day watching TV.
CNN to be precise.
It was 9/11, THE 9/11.
So, even though I was shocked about not having a job anymore, I could not stop thinking about how lucky I was compared to the people that died that day.
So, yes, I agree with you 100%, some events in life, really do put everything else in perspective.
Warm regards and best wishes,
Rov.
Hi Jean,
Thanks for dropping by my blog and thanks for the link. I have added your link.
I have to agree with Ted Newman that you have a great niche on Autism and Alzheimer. Like he suggested keep a journal on how you handle the different situations you encounter and maybe later you can teach other.
Good Luck and I am sure you will have a wonderful Christmas and don’t worry about your internet business, you need to take time off and spend with family, like what Alex have said, plan your business around your personal life and you will enjoy it.
Regards,
Frankie
http://www.frankiesng.com
Hi Jean,
Your website is so much better organised than mine. Probably due to the layout of the theme. There is so much I need to do to improve!
I noticed you are not in Garry’s Blogroll so I need to add you to mine. Considered done!
I have invested in Michael Cheney’s Cash Connons too, without traffic, those cannons are firing blank at the moment.
Now the good news my competition traffic increased by 450% last 2 days! The bad news, it increased from 2 to 9 unique visitors!
Your friend,
John.
Thanks for sharing your work with us! Your theme is just awesome!
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Thankyou everyone for commenting.
Appreciate your kind words and support.
Hope it all works out well for you all.
Best wishes
Jean
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